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Messaging Filter?! This is tough

This isn't working...at all, so I'm just going to be honest. I'm just a lonely guy, it's been years since my last relationship, in which I gave somebody the world, but I've learned that some women will just take advantage of that, but my eyes are open now. This doesn't mean I've become cruel, it means don't mistake my kindness for weakness, because I won't put up with any more crap, but I will treat you like a queen, but I expect kingship in return. Sometimes I go out to a bar to watch a game, and every once and a while I'll look up from the TV and catch a few women staring at me, so I wait for the look back and smile, only to be met with a scorn or some other dirty look. I just don't understand any of you, your mindsets, your thinking, and that's ok, I accept that. You should also understand that you won't fully understand my thinking either, and if you think you do, then some maturing is necessary. After some research I've come to understand that the standard most women put into online dating is to subtract the values. So let's be real, every thing in my profile is true, my weight, my height, my pictures, my likes, everything, if you desire to meet the man in the profile I guarantee that's exactly who your going to get, not a dumbed down version trying to promote myself as something I'm not. I've been on dates with a girls I met online, who were not who their profile claimed them to be, and it's an instant buzz kill, and I stress the word girls and not women. This shows an absolute lack in confidence, no faith in my ability to look past societies perceptions of who you should be, an downright dishonesty. Lord knows I'm not perfect, and I don't expect it either, but be the person I'm expecting to meet, mentally and physically.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildSlender
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyStudent
Employment StatusStudent
Job Titlestudent

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, I don't like TV, Sports, Re-runs, Science fiction
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation
Favorite moviesLord of the Rings trilogy. Any thing Star Trek, many others not worth mentioning.
Music typesRap, Rock, Electronic, Classical, Vacuum cleaner noises, Gospel, Punk
Favorite artistsNo favorite artist, I usually like a few songs per artist. Thank God for music downloading.
Reading selectionFantasy, History, Philosophy, Religious, Science fiction
Favorite booksI do read alot, so many favorites to choose from.
Idea of funBall games are great. Love going to the movies, and nothing beats a good restaraunt. Bars are ok on occasion, but grew out of clubs long ago. But the greatest thing is just relaxing at home and letting the troubles of the world fade away... or stack up. The things I listed as hobbies are things I like, but don't have time for on a regular basis.
HobbiesReading, Learning, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Cooking, Camping, Computers

Personality

SmokerSmoke heavily (10+ a day)
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing video games, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trySky Diving, Going to space, surfing, walking on hot coals, more travel, swimming with whales or dolphins, exotic foods, astral trips, things I can't imagine.

Views

Political viewsMiddle of the road
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo become a published writer

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerKindness. Not just to me, but to the world.
On the first dateHave fun and laugh, wherever that may be. I think just sharing a cup of coffey is perfect, good chance to undertsand each others peronalities without all the added pressure. Dinner and a movie is horrible, I've learned by now that an hour long meal with somebody your not connecting with can be awkward, and spending two hours in a dark room not talking to each just don't make sense...just get to know me.